I remember my childhood as days of going into the woods with my pocket knife and maybe some nails and lumber poached from my dad’s workbench.
I would spend all day in the dirt and trees with my many siblings, playing, chasing, running, climbing, and most memorably, whittling wood. At 8 years old, I had my own Swiss Army knife. I felt a sense of industriousness, independence and maturity in owning my own tool. I would use my knife to make bows and arrows, fishing poles, bracelets, and my beloved tree fort. This is just what I did, seemingly, daily. My mom was probably back at the house attending to an infant and baking apple pie. Who knows? Because I rarely had to check in. She was content knowing I was probably within ear shot while she managed the household needs undisrupted. She left us kids to our own devices. We were the masters of our play time. We knew our boundaries by testing our own limits. My mom didn’t stand over me while I used my pocketknife saying “be careful” every 10 seconds.
I inherently knew to be careful. I knew the knife was sharp and would inflect pain and wounds. I knew that I would fall off my tight rope that I built if I didn’t pay careful attention. I knew these natural consequences because I had experimented. I learned through trial and error. I played with nature and manipulated my environment. Somehow, this notion of freedom, independence and outdoor play has been lost somewhere between my childhood and what I see in current children.
But I’m not ready to write this off as something my kids can experience. It’s important to me because I know the value of this now labeled “unstructured independent outdoor play.” I lived it and now even have research to support its benefits for healthy development. Healthy development that goes beyond curbing obesity.
The reality here is our kids need to move their bodies more.
Our kids need more than 30 minutes per day. They need hours to climb trees, roll down hills, balance on fallen logs, chase milkweed seeds as they drift through the air, and follow snakes as they slither through the brush.
So how do we do this? How do we give our kids hours of outdoor play per day? I think the answer will be different for every family. Maybe the solution is helping find the right schooling for our kids, one that focuses on outdoor play. Maybe the solution is pushing back at public schools to purposely engage our children outside. What if every student had access to one day per week to be outside all day?
[…] my kids. It’s not in my nature. I’d go a little crazy. So, regardless of the weather, we go outside. It’s just that getting outside now is so much harder with payoffs that might be reaped […]
Kelley, I loved reading this! The little glimpse of your childhood was so interesting-this was so inspiring and encouraging to read. Thanks!